Hi!
Before I welcomed Asher, I knew motherhood would be incredibly new territory both mentally and physically. I wasn’t worried, though. I believe strongly in a woman’s instincts. I was certain that my instincts would kick in and become more heightened than ever when I became mama to this baby boy.
There is a lot of stigma about how a woman will ease into motherhood. Will she feel postpartum depression? Will she lose her baby weight? Will she sleep? Will she be able to nurse? I trusted I would take to all of these new life experiences. When Asher arrived, I approached these experiences with a sense of calm and confidence. These are some of my thoughts on feeling like myself and at peace amidst tremendous life changes!
- Enlist help! It is wonderful having a nurse, family member, or friend keep you company. Simply having someone to talk to during the feedings and downtime during the day is delightful and brings feel good vibes!
- Stick to a balanced diet. My pre-baby diet was healthy. I wanted to make sure Asher received a variety of nutrients while he grew! I certainly had my share of ice cream and treats, but the ice cream was dairy free and the treats were home baked. Lots of protein and veggies were staples and I never missed a meal. Now that Asher is here, I continue to eat well. Not only is this is good for Asher, but I feel great and my 28 pregnancy pounds were gone 4 weeks postpartum.
- Get out of the house! Asher and I eat lunch out all the time. It is Summer! The fresh air, sunshine, and people watching are relaxing and rejuvenating.
- Don’t forget to shower and get dressed every morning. Asher hangs out in his Baby Bjorn bouncer in the bathroom while I take a 5 minute shower. It isn’t a long one, but it does the trick, I feel refreshed, and it’s the right start to the day!
- Create fun traditions. Every Sunday, we visit the farmer’s market as a family. It’s the perfect activity because we are outdoors, we are together, we are purchasing healthy food, and we look forward to it every week!
Peace and love,
Elisa